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Why some marriages succeedSometimes people have that type of personality that just clicks with their mate. The one knows what the other is thinking and feeling as well as knowing when to stop teasing. Couples have learned to work together in harmony over the years because they truly wish to be married. Sometimes couples will say oh, let us get married and see how it is; if it does not work, we can always divorce. This is not a good attitude to have when entering into marriage.
Why some marriages succeed has a realm of qualities that each couple possess in order to make the marriage work. Religion is one of the number one factors
that help couples to stay together. The belief that God does not sanction a divorce makes a lot of couples try harder for a better marriage. The church is instrumental in teachings that are helpful in the skills needed to help make your marriage a success. When couples come from the same faith in Christ this also helps them to find the answers that they seek.
Why some marriages succeed is because couples stay together for the sake of the children. They find that both love their children and through the childrens eyes, they learn to tolerate each other. They also learn communication skills and as they grow older together sharing lifes experiences they grow closer to each other. Before a couple knows it 30 years or more have passed, the children are grown, grandchildren are now in the picture and they simply find that living without each other is an impossibility.
Why some marriages succeed is unfortunately because the couple is high on the social register and being divorced could ruin both their careers. Especially if one has the desire to go into politics, being divorced can hurt. Therefore, these couples stay together for convenience sake while having affairs on the side. This is the worst possible reason to keep a marriage together.
Why some marriages succeed the couple have learn how to be happy together, understand each other, and simply love each other as partners, friends, and lovers. This in todays world is a novel idea but it still is present. Couples have grown up in the same society together and fell in love from childhood not knowing anyone else and not wanting too. These types of marriages usually last a lifetime.
Why some marriages succeed I believe is because couples have found the secret to real happiness. Happiness is the fuel for a meaningful life. You should start out on a day-to-day basis and learn how to be happy one day at a time. Many people when ask to make a list of what they believe will make them happy usually list material things. Make a list of the blessings that you have and you will find your blessings out weigh your material things by far. A boot camp for happiness is a great idea for couples to spend a weekend together learning. A great way for church groups to focus on the things in life that are important not the thing that is materialistic. I believe that a lot of young couples and couples not so young would see the value in a boot camp for happiness and be glad to attend.
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